BRIDGET WAS TRAINING HER MOM!
She was used to doing as she liked, and crying was her way to persuade Mom. GIVING IN TO CHILD'S IS VERY BAD FOR THE CHILD!!!
THE PARENT IS TEACHING THEM IT IS THE WAY.
TO DEMAND WHAT THEY WANT!!!
NOT EVEN ok at home, and they
LOOK LIKE A SPOILED BRAT IN THE WORLD!!!
SPOILED IS ANOTHER WORD FOR a**h***!!!
I sent to her room until she stopped crying.
IT TAUGHT HER NOT TO CRY TO GET HER WAY!!! She kept crying. She could not yet speak, so I copied her crying. She knew I understood it to only be an act!
PARENTS THAT GIVE IN TO CRYING,
LEARN TO BRIBE THEIR KIDS TO STOP CRYING!!!
YOU ARE FOOLISHLY GIVING IN TO BLACKMAIL!!!
THE CHILD IS TEACHING THE PARENT!!!
WANT TO STOP MY CRYING? GIVE ME A BRIBE!!!
UNDERSTAND? YOU ARE BEING TRAINED!
If kids test something, and it works (Crying), they keep doing it til it stops working. Then they try something else.
Crying kids irritate me. Getting them to stop is so simple! ON THE BUS, I merely say to their parent, ''If you can't stop your child from crying, we'll have to throw you off the bus!'';
KIDS STOP CRYING AT ONCE! When the kids think their actions are endan-gering the parent, they stop at once!
One little girl felt safe sitting next to her mother, and still would not stop crying. ''SIT HERE!''; stopped her at once. ALMOST ALL MOTHERS UNDERSTAND THE INTENT, AND AGREE!
Once, I saw a baby looking in a mirror. It was making faces in it, to judge the best effect. So babies learn to communicate with expression, non-verbally! They don't know how to talk yet, but are extremely intelligent!
Think about it. If you had the mind that you do now, but were not able to speak, what would you do to communicate? Babies are far sharper than adults, but totally ignorant! Not dumb, but ignorant!!!
Many of their actions are merely to get the proper reaction. Think about it. They are sharper than we imagine, and try to communicate with us all the time. We are too dumb to understand!
They are unfamiliar with the intricacies of our world. They need the proper guidance. Do this wisely! DISCIPLINE, MEANS WISDOM!!! They will be able to get along better than spoiled children. Guidance is very important!!!
Use positive and negative reinforcement. Extra privilege for good behavior, restriction of privileges for bad. ''Never hit your kids, it breaks down bonding! ''Spare the rod.''; is extremely stupid, old fashioned and unacceptable. Say, ''That gets you restriction. I'll think about specifics when I cool down.'';
3/4 don't bond with their kids. If your mate is selfish and doesn't try, we would split! Most guys marry for lust, and lie about love. Their version probably comes from a porno magazine, realize this. They don't care about kid's futures.
Disciplining kids orally in public is common for good parents. I have only had objection from one mother.
''You don't tell my kid what to do!''; a prime example of a child raising a child. Although I have done this dozens of times, this one did not to see what the point was. She happened to be black, but later, a white father did it too.
''YOU SHOULDN'T PUT BLACK PEOPLE IN A BAD LIGHT!''; a woman said. This is the problem. I didn't, the mother did! If merely reporting reality, puts one in a bad light, then their actions are wrong!!!